The Believers men and women, are protectors one of another: they enjoin what is just, and forbid what is evil: they observe regular prayers, practice regular charity, and obey Allah and His Messenger. On them will Allah pour His mercy: for Allah is Exalted in power, Wise. (71) Allah hath promised to Believers men and women Gardens under which rivers flow, to dwell therein, and beautiful mansions in Gardens of everlasting stay. but the greatest bliss in the Good Pleasure of Allah: that is the Supreme Felicity. (72) O Prophet! strive hard against the Unbelievers and the Hypocrites, and be firm against them. Their abode is Hell― an evil refuge indeed. (73) They swear by Allah that they said nothing (evil), but indeed they uttered blasphemy, and they did it after accepting Islam; and they meditated a plot which they were unable to carry out: this revenge of theirs was (their) only return for the bounty with which Allah and His Messenger had enriched them! If they repent, it will be best for them; but if they turn back (to their evil ways), Allah will punish them with a grievous penalty in this life and in the Hereafter: they shall have none on earth to protect or help them. (74) Amongst them are men who made a covenant with Allah, that if He bestowed on them of His bounty they would give (largely) in charity, and be truly amongst those who are righteous. (75) But when He did bestow of His bounty, they became misers and turned back (from their covenant), averse (from its fulfillment). (76) So He hath put as a consequence hypocrisy into their hearts, (to last) till the Day whereon they shall meet Him: because they broke their Covenant with Allah, and because they lied (again and again). (77) Know they not that Allah doth know their secret (thoughts) and their secret counsels, and that Allah knoweth well all things unseen? (78) Those who slander such of the Believers as give themselves freely to (deeds of) charity as well as such as can find nothing to give except the fruits of their labour and throw ridicule on them,― Allah will throw back their ridicule on them: and they shall have a grievous penalty. (79) Whether thou ask for their forgiveness or not, (their sin is unforgivable): if thou ask seventy times for their forgiveness, Allah will not forgive them: because they have rejected Allah and His Messenger; and Allah guideth not those who are perversely rebellious. (80)
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اور مسلمان مرد اور مسلمان عورتیں آپس میں ایک دوسرے کے(دینی) رفیق ہیں۔نیک باتوں کی تعلیم دیتے ہیں اور بُری باتوں سے منع کرتے ہیں اور نماز کی پابندی کرتے ہیں اور زکوة دیتے ہیں اور الله اور اس کے رسولﷺ کا کہنا مانتے ہیں ان لوگوں پر ضرور الله تعالیٰ رحم کرے گا بلاشبہہ الله تعالیٰ قادرِ (مطلق) ہے حکمت والا ہے۔ (۷۱)الله تعالیٰ نے مسلمان مَردوں اور مسلمان عورتوں سے ایسے باغوں کا وعدہ کررکھا ہے جن کے نیچے سے نہریں چلتی ہونگی جن میں وہ ہمیشہ رہیں گے اور نفیس مکانوں کا جوکہ ان ہمیشگی کے باغوں میں ہونگے اور (ان سب نعمتوں کے ساتھ) الله تعالیٰ کی رضامندی سب (نعمتوں)سے بڑی چیز ہے۔(یہ جزائے مذکور) بڑی کامیابی ہے۔ (۷۲) اے نبیﷺ کفار (سے بالسّنان)اور منافقین سے (باللسّان) جہاد کیجئیے اور ان پر سختی کیجئیے (دنیا میں تو یہ اس کے مستحق ہیں) اور (آخرت میں) ان کا ٹھکانا دوزخ ہے۔اور وہ بُری جگہ ہے۔ (۷۳) وہ لوگ قسمیں کھاجاتے ہیں کہ ہم نے (فلانی بات) نہیں کہی حالانکہ یقیناً انہوں نے کفر کی بات کہی تھی اور (وہ بات کہہ کر) اپنے اسلام (ظاہری) کے بعد (ظاہر میں بھی) کافر ہوگئے اور انہوں نے ایسی بات کا ارادہ کیا تھا جو ان کے ہاتھ نہ لگی اور یہ کہ انہوں نے صرف اس بات کا بدلہ دیا ہے کہ ان کو الله نے اور اس کے رسولﷺ نے رزقِ خداوندی سے مالدار کردیا۔سو اگر(اس کے بعد بھی) توبہ کریں تو ان کے لیے (دونوں جہان میں) بہتر ہوگا۔اور اگر روگردانی کی تو الله تعالی ٰان کو دنیا اور آخرت میں دردناک سزا دے گا۔اور ان کادنیا میں نہ کوئی یار ہے اور نہ مددگار۔ (۷۴) اور ان (منافقین) میں بعض آدمی ایسے ہیں کہ خدا تعالیٰ سے عہد کرتے ہیں کہ اگر الله تعالیٰ ہم کو اپنے فضل سے (بہت سامال) عطا فرمادے تو ہم خوب خیٰرات کریں اور ہم (اُس کے ذریعہ سے) خوب نیک نیک کام کیا کریں۔ (۷۵) سو جب الله تعالیٰ نے ان کو اپنے فضل سے(بہت سا مال) دے دیا تووہ اس میں بخل کرنے لگے (کہ زکوة نہ دی) اور (اطاعت سے)روگردانی کرنے لگے۔ (۷۶) اور وہ تو روگردانی کے (پہلے ہی سے) عادی ہیں سو الله تعالیٰ نے ان کی سزا میں ان کے دلوں میں نفاق (قائم)کردیا جو اس (خدا) کے پاس جانے کے دن تک رہے گا اس سبب سے کہ انہوں نے خدا تعالیٰ سے اپنے وعدہ میں خلاف کیااور اس سبب سے کہ وہ (اس وعدہ میں شروع ہی سے)جھوٹ بولتے تھے۔ (۷۷) کیا ان کو خبر نہیں کہ الله تعالیٰ کو ان کے دل کا راز اور ان کی سرگوشی سب معلوم ہے اور یہ کہ الله تعالیٰ تمام غیب کی باتوں کو خوب جانتے ہیں۔ (۷۸) یہ (منافقین) ایسے ہیں کہ نفل صدقہ دینے والے مسلمان پر صدقات کے بارے میں طعن کرتے ہیں اور (خصوص) ان لوگوں پر (اور زیادہ) جن کو بجز محنت و مزدوری کے اور کچھ میسر نہیں ہوتا یعنی ان سے تمسخر کرتے ہیں۔الله تعالیٰ ان کو اس تمسخر کا (تو خاص) بدلہ دے گا اور (مطلق طعن کا یہ بدلہ ملے ہی گا کہ) ان کے لیے دردناک (آخرت میں) سزا ہوگی ۔ (۷۹) آپ خواہ ان (منافقین) کے لیے استغفار کریں یا ان کے لیے استغفار نہ کریں۔ اگر آپ ان کے لیے ستر بار بھی استغفار کرینگے تب بھی الله تعالیٰ ان کو نہ بخشے گا یہ اِس وجہ سے ہے کہ انہوں نے الله اور رسولﷺ سے کفر کیا۔اور الله تعالیٰ ایسے سرکش لوگوں کو ہدایت نہیں کیا کرتا۔ (۸۰)
Saturday, September 25, 2010
Wednesday, September 22, 2010
How to Have Better Luck with Gay Dating Sites
Online dating is a huge money maker these days and nearly everyone has had a profile on one of these sites at some point. But it can be even harder to find a date on gay dating sites than on predominantly straight sites. The competition on dating sites geared towards the gay community is extremely fierce. You've got to have something pretty great to offer to get the kind of attention you are looking for. Your approach is going to differ depending on whether you are a gay male or a lesbian. So for the purposes of this article, all advice will be geared towards men. I will write a similar article for the lesbian community at a later time. Follow these tips to increase your odds of getting noticed on gay dating sites.
Instructions
1. First and foremost you must consider what it is you are really looking for. Once you've decided you should check into dating sites that are specifically geared for what it is you're after. If you're looking for casual hookups and meeting new guys without anything serious you need to go with gay adult dating websites. This way everyone there wants the same thing and you don't run the risk of leading a guy on with false hopes of a committed relationship. You'll get exactly what you're in the market for with none of the confusion or hurt feelings. But if you're tired of the casual dating scene and are looking to find Mr. Right, then stay away from adult dating sites. You're not going to find love there. You'll only be setting yourself up for getting hurt. Focus your attention on some of the larger match making sites that have established a good reputation or sites geared toward those seeking a long term relationship. For example gkiss.com is a gay personals site where all members are seeking something more than a one night stand. There are a lot of other websites like this out there to choose from
2. Make your photo count! Your main photo on your dating profile is the most important thing. People will tell you that what you say is the most important, but in reality a guy's not going to see your well written biography if he isn't interested in your pic. So choose wisely! A woman may be able to over look an imperfect photo but gay men have much higher expecations. A very well done headshot is your best bet for your main pic. Of course, be sure to include lots of full body shots as well but you want your main pic to focus on your face. This rule doesn't apply to hookup sites, however, in these instances a full body shot is almost a requirement for your main pic. But whatever photo you use, make it good. Don't take pics of you with your ex. Don't put up a photo that's grainy and bad quality. Make sure the lighting is good, that your skin looks great, that your teeth aren't yellow and that your hair is perfectly done. No one wants a guy who can't take care of himself properly.
3. Really think about the content of your profile. This is a dating advertisement. Treat it as such. Make your profile short and straight forward. Don't go on and on about things. Be sure that your profile is grammatically correct and that everything makes sense. You'll only embarrass yourself with a sloppy profile full of misspellings and incorrect use of punctuation. And believe it or not, intelligence can be a huge turn on for many men. Ignorance however, can cause an interested party to hit the back button.
Instructions
1. First and foremost you must consider what it is you are really looking for. Once you've decided you should check into dating sites that are specifically geared for what it is you're after. If you're looking for casual hookups and meeting new guys without anything serious you need to go with gay adult dating websites. This way everyone there wants the same thing and you don't run the risk of leading a guy on with false hopes of a committed relationship. You'll get exactly what you're in the market for with none of the confusion or hurt feelings. But if you're tired of the casual dating scene and are looking to find Mr. Right, then stay away from adult dating sites. You're not going to find love there. You'll only be setting yourself up for getting hurt. Focus your attention on some of the larger match making sites that have established a good reputation or sites geared toward those seeking a long term relationship. For example gkiss.com is a gay personals site where all members are seeking something more than a one night stand. There are a lot of other websites like this out there to choose from
2. Make your photo count! Your main photo on your dating profile is the most important thing. People will tell you that what you say is the most important, but in reality a guy's not going to see your well written biography if he isn't interested in your pic. So choose wisely! A woman may be able to over look an imperfect photo but gay men have much higher expecations. A very well done headshot is your best bet for your main pic. Of course, be sure to include lots of full body shots as well but you want your main pic to focus on your face. This rule doesn't apply to hookup sites, however, in these instances a full body shot is almost a requirement for your main pic. But whatever photo you use, make it good. Don't take pics of you with your ex. Don't put up a photo that's grainy and bad quality. Make sure the lighting is good, that your skin looks great, that your teeth aren't yellow and that your hair is perfectly done. No one wants a guy who can't take care of himself properly.
3. Really think about the content of your profile. This is a dating advertisement. Treat it as such. Make your profile short and straight forward. Don't go on and on about things. Be sure that your profile is grammatically correct and that everything makes sense. You'll only embarrass yourself with a sloppy profile full of misspellings and incorrect use of punctuation. And believe it or not, intelligence can be a huge turn on for many men. Ignorance however, can cause an interested party to hit the back button.
Monday, September 13, 2010
Dimataling
Dimataling is a 4th class municipality in the province of Zamboanga del Sur, Philippines. According to the 2000 census, it has a population of 25,843 people in 4,949 households.
Dimataling is administratively subdivided into 24 barangays.
* Bacayawan
* Baha
* Balanagan
* Baluno
* Binuay
* Buburay
* Grap
* Josefina
* Kagawasan
* Lalab
* Libertad
* Magahis
* Mahayag
* Mercedes
* Poblacion
* Saloagan
* San Roque
* Sugbay Uno
* Sumbato
* Sumpot
* Tinggabulong
* Tiniguangan
* Tipangi
* Upper Ludion
With the distinction of being one of Zamboanga del Sur’s oldest towns, Dimataling is a 4th class municipality that is located some 56 kilometers northwest of the province’s capital of Pagadian City. Its geographical coordinates are 7 degrees 31′ 55″ North and 123 degrees 21′ 59″ East. According to the census, as of 2000, Dimataling has a population of 25,843 people in 4,949 households. All the 24 barangays are distributed over 141.8 square kilometers of land, majority of which are flat lands and rolling lands. Those who want to go to Dimataling will find that it is accessible via land and sea via Pagadian City.
Dimataling was originally inhabited by Muslims during its initial creation on June 17, 1950. Like most of the municipalities and towns of Zamboanga del Sur, settlers eventually came in, although not as many as those in major municipalities such as Midsalip or Aurora. Most of the migrants who came in are Christians, mostly Cebuanos, and until now, both peoples are co-existing peacefully with each other. Muslims and Subanens, however, are still the prevalent group of people and their customs are the ones that a visitor will often see in their first trip to the place.
Dimataling is mostly an agricultural town, with cassava, bananas, and copra as its main products. Since the town is also coastal, by Illana Bay, fishing is also another source of livelihood. The bananas produced in Dimataling, in particular, are quite popular with the neighboring municipalities and even out of the province. Banana production started small, with only several farmers planting the crop. However, upon discovering that there is indeed money to be had with the crop, other farmers followed suit until it became the a major crop of the municipality. The bananas that Dimataling produce are usually of the cardava variety and they are usually made into chips and other banana products.
With the construction of the concrete provincial road that leads from Dimataling to Pitogo, it is assumed that more and more people and industries will find its way into this lovely municipal town.
Testing, testing...YouTube begins trial of new live streaming platform
From U2 to the Indian Premier League to the White House to E3, we've worked closely with our partners to give you a front row seat to a wide array of live events. Today and tomorrow, tune in as we open a new chapter of YouTube live streaming. Starting at 8:00 a.m. PT, we will begin a limited trial of a new live streaming platform in conjunction with four of our partners: Howcast, Next New Networks, Rocketboom and Young Hollywood.
This new platform integrates live streaming directly into YouTube channels; all broadcasters need is a webcam or external USB/FireWire camera. Included in the test is a “Live Comments” module which lets you engage with the broadcaster and the broader YouTube community. For the purpose of the trial, this offering will only be available today and tomorrow. Based on the results of this initial test, we’ll evaluate rolling out the platform more broadly to our partners worldwide.
Check out all the live broadcasts via the interactive schedule below, and feel free to share this schedule across the web via the embed functionality. Bear with us as we test this new platform as there may be some bumps along the way. Please share your feedback in the comments section below (though note that the section is moderated due to spam). Thanks!
This new platform integrates live streaming directly into YouTube channels; all broadcasters need is a webcam or external USB/FireWire camera. Included in the test is a “Live Comments” module which lets you engage with the broadcaster and the broader YouTube community. For the purpose of the trial, this offering will only be available today and tomorrow. Based on the results of this initial test, we’ll evaluate rolling out the platform more broadly to our partners worldwide.
Check out all the live broadcasts via the interactive schedule below, and feel free to share this schedule across the web via the embed functionality. Bear with us as we test this new platform as there may be some bumps along the way. Please share your feedback in the comments section below (though note that the section is moderated due to spam). Thanks!
Wednesday, September 8, 2010
MeTube, YouTube
Been trawling the deep dark recesses of YouTube lately during my random breaks at the office. A necessary evil, this. Keeping your sanity in the face of 200 page agreements dictate as such.
YouTube. The best thing since sliced bread, then. Never have voyeuristic pleasures been so well-catered for. One website with a seemingly limitless supply of snapshots from other people's lives.
You’d be amazed at the stuff you’ll find there these days. I’ve even devised a game of amusement built around YouTube’s searchable database. It goes a little something like this:
(1) Open YouTube.
(2) Click on the search tab.
(3) Key in the first thing that comes into your head.
(4) Click on the first video that appears.
The results are usually quite amusing.
Last week, the words “lady” and “driver” popped in my head, no thanks to a frustrating encounter with one earlier in the. What I found was this:
YouTube. The best thing since sliced bread, then. Never have voyeuristic pleasures been so well-catered for. One website with a seemingly limitless supply of snapshots from other people's lives.
You’d be amazed at the stuff you’ll find there these days. I’ve even devised a game of amusement built around YouTube’s searchable database. It goes a little something like this:
(1) Open YouTube.
(2) Click on the search tab.
(3) Key in the first thing that comes into your head.
(4) Click on the first video that appears.
The results are usually quite amusing.
Last week, the words “lady” and “driver” popped in my head, no thanks to a frustrating encounter with one earlier in the. What I found was this:
Saturday, September 4, 2010
The Abusive Relationship
The following is a true account of what happened to my friend. Names have been changed to protect the identity of the persons involved.
Richard, a white gay male who is in his late 40s, have been dating Simon, a Asian gay male who is in his mid-20s. During their courtship, Richard would always ask Simon over for dinner and sex. Richard is just the perfect male specimen and a dream-guy of every young man. He's a gentleman, a good cook in French and Italian cuisine, acquires a vast knowledge about wine, impeccable command of English and other foreign languages and above all, he's very good in bed and Simon admits that it was the best sex he ever had.
You may think this guy seems to good to be true and it's impossible that there is a perfect man out there like him. Well, you're right. Richard does have his flaws; he sleeps around with any guy he could get, even to the extent of going to a neighbouring country just to have fun with other guys.
When he comes back, he would boast on how great his sex adventures was to Simon without realising this hurt Simon deeply in the heart. To Richard, Simon is just one of those guys he have fun with and there isn't any feeling of love being involved and Simon knows this as a fact. In return, Simon would also tell Richard about his great ONS with a guy and that's it!
Richard was furious and upset and he thought Simon was comparing him with that guy and it makes Richard felt inferior about his sex skill but it was not Simon's intention at all to make Richard feel so. He was just doing what Richard has done all these while, by speaking out how great his sex fun with other guys. So why can't Simon do the same?
Richard said it's fine with him that Simon have fun with other guys but it's wrong of Simon to tell him about it. Don't you think Richard is being selfish and ego-maniac? Oh! So now, he is the only one who can talk about his great sex but not Simon? This is unfair! He's making such a huge issue out of it as though Simon is all wrong and he's right.
After that incident, Richard still keep talking about his fun with other guys to Simon. What's his intention? Simon couldn't take it anymore after being psychologically abused and cut off ties with him and blocked him from his MSN Messenger Chat. I'm glad that Simon has finally taken up enough courage to leave him for good but only time will heal the wound.
Richard, a white gay male who is in his late 40s, have been dating Simon, a Asian gay male who is in his mid-20s. During their courtship, Richard would always ask Simon over for dinner and sex. Richard is just the perfect male specimen and a dream-guy of every young man. He's a gentleman, a good cook in French and Italian cuisine, acquires a vast knowledge about wine, impeccable command of English and other foreign languages and above all, he's very good in bed and Simon admits that it was the best sex he ever had.
You may think this guy seems to good to be true and it's impossible that there is a perfect man out there like him. Well, you're right. Richard does have his flaws; he sleeps around with any guy he could get, even to the extent of going to a neighbouring country just to have fun with other guys.
When he comes back, he would boast on how great his sex adventures was to Simon without realising this hurt Simon deeply in the heart. To Richard, Simon is just one of those guys he have fun with and there isn't any feeling of love being involved and Simon knows this as a fact. In return, Simon would also tell Richard about his great ONS with a guy and that's it!
Richard was furious and upset and he thought Simon was comparing him with that guy and it makes Richard felt inferior about his sex skill but it was not Simon's intention at all to make Richard feel so. He was just doing what Richard has done all these while, by speaking out how great his sex fun with other guys. So why can't Simon do the same?
Richard said it's fine with him that Simon have fun with other guys but it's wrong of Simon to tell him about it. Don't you think Richard is being selfish and ego-maniac? Oh! So now, he is the only one who can talk about his great sex but not Simon? This is unfair! He's making such a huge issue out of it as though Simon is all wrong and he's right.
After that incident, Richard still keep talking about his fun with other guys to Simon. What's his intention? Simon couldn't take it anymore after being psychologically abused and cut off ties with him and blocked him from his MSN Messenger Chat. I'm glad that Simon has finally taken up enough courage to leave him for good but only time will heal the wound.
To Wear or Not To Wear
This is not about clothing but condom. Some gay men prefer to have safe sex and would only fuck or let the other guy fuck with condom but I’m sure every man out there, be it straight or gay would like to have sex without having to wear anything around their penis but it seems to be an impossible these days since the existence of STD (Sexually Transmitted Disease) and the most fearing of all... AIDS.
Recently, a female singer from an all-girl group in Germany was charged and trial for having unprotected sex with men without disclosing to the men that she has HIV positive and unfortunately, one of the men she had sex with has been infected with the virus. The irony is the name of the pop group is No Angels.
So the next time you find a hot sexy hunk or a cute young teenage boy from those gay personal sites and wanted to have sex with him, do you believe him if he told you he is clean, and very healthy from any disease? Do you believe his words? What is your prevention from getting any if he lies? What if he’s those who has infected with the virus from other men and he felt angry and wanted to take revenge but he can’t find that guy as he doesn’t know which guy passed the disease to him and so, he take it out to other guys who sleep with him. What happens if you’re the next guy? Are you willing to take the risk?
I know some would say, “Well, we are all going to die eventually. It’s just a matter of time so why bother about such thing. Life is short. Have fun!” Yes, I agree that life is short and we should live life to the fullest but it doesn’t mean we can go risking our lives like that. Honestly, I don’t think anyone would like to spend their old days looking at the effect of the disease on their skin and body. Who wants to suffer at such old age? Don’t you wish to spend your golden age enjoying life slowly and healthily?
No wonder some gay would end their lives once they found out they have the disease because they cannot face the future with the virus in their body. Well, at the end of the day, the decision is in your hands and your future lies in the decision you make today.
To wear or not to wear? You make the decision.
Recently, a female singer from an all-girl group in Germany was charged and trial for having unprotected sex with men without disclosing to the men that she has HIV positive and unfortunately, one of the men she had sex with has been infected with the virus. The irony is the name of the pop group is No Angels.
So the next time you find a hot sexy hunk or a cute young teenage boy from those gay personal sites and wanted to have sex with him, do you believe him if he told you he is clean, and very healthy from any disease? Do you believe his words? What is your prevention from getting any if he lies? What if he’s those who has infected with the virus from other men and he felt angry and wanted to take revenge but he can’t find that guy as he doesn’t know which guy passed the disease to him and so, he take it out to other guys who sleep with him. What happens if you’re the next guy? Are you willing to take the risk?
I know some would say, “Well, we are all going to die eventually. It’s just a matter of time so why bother about such thing. Life is short. Have fun!” Yes, I agree that life is short and we should live life to the fullest but it doesn’t mean we can go risking our lives like that. Honestly, I don’t think anyone would like to spend their old days looking at the effect of the disease on their skin and body. Who wants to suffer at such old age? Don’t you wish to spend your golden age enjoying life slowly and healthily?
No wonder some gay would end their lives once they found out they have the disease because they cannot face the future with the virus in their body. Well, at the end of the day, the decision is in your hands and your future lies in the decision you make today.
To wear or not to wear? You make the decision.
It's finally Over!
After six seasons with a total of ninety-four episodes, I can finally announce that I have finished watching the complete series of the show Sex and the City. I have been deprived of so many sleeps over the months just to catch up on this show.
I don't know what is so addictive about the series even after I've finished watching it. It could be the hilarious lines or the hot men featured along each episode but if you asked me if it's good or whether I would recommend others to watch, my answer would be this-Watch it if you have the free time.
I'm not saying it's not good but I still can't see what makes me attracted to it in the first place. I know, it's a weird feeling because it's either you love it or hate it but for me, I can't even say I like it. When my friend asked how's the show or if I like it, I say, "It's ok."
Honestly, I have never watched any TV show or series in its entire complete seasons. I like the series 24 starring Kiefer Sutherland as the agent Jack Bauer but I watched until the fifth season and never got a chance to continue because my friend borrowed it from another friend and the lending process just kind of stopped. Maybe I should get my hands on it and continue watching because it has only eight seasons and that means three more seasons for me to complete it.
So, what TV series/show have you watched in its entire seasons that you think it's good? Do recommend me some as I'm running out of shows to watch.
I don't know what is so addictive about the series even after I've finished watching it. It could be the hilarious lines or the hot men featured along each episode but if you asked me if it's good or whether I would recommend others to watch, my answer would be this-Watch it if you have the free time.
I'm not saying it's not good but I still can't see what makes me attracted to it in the first place. I know, it's a weird feeling because it's either you love it or hate it but for me, I can't even say I like it. When my friend asked how's the show or if I like it, I say, "It's ok."
Honestly, I have never watched any TV show or series in its entire complete seasons. I like the series 24 starring Kiefer Sutherland as the agent Jack Bauer but I watched until the fifth season and never got a chance to continue because my friend borrowed it from another friend and the lending process just kind of stopped. Maybe I should get my hands on it and continue watching because it has only eight seasons and that means three more seasons for me to complete it.
So, what TV series/show have you watched in its entire seasons that you think it's good? Do recommend me some as I'm running out of shows to watch.
Dating=Lying
Why do people lie and pretend to be the best when they're dating someone? Just to impress that person so that he or she would like you in return? And what's next after you got him or her in a relationship? Without realising, you will return back to your normal self. You don't find it necessary anymore to impress your lover because he's yours already.
Let's take a comparison on a heterosexual dating couple during the dating period and after they have confirmed to be in a relationship.
Scenario 1
Dating
Girl: Do I look nice in this dress?
Man: You look fabulous. You're the prettiest.
After
Girl: Do I look nice in this dress?
Man: You still think you're young? You look the same no matter what you wear.
Scenario 2
Dating
Man: What do you want to eat?
Girl: Sushi.
Man: Ok, let's go.
After
Man: What do you want to eat?
Girl: Sushi.
Man: Don't want lah. So expensive.
Scenario 3
Dating
Man: I love you baby.
Girl: I love you too, hubby.
After
Girl: How come you don't say 'I love you' anymore to me?
Man: Eee.... so gross.
Scenario 4
Dating
Girl: We have not been going out for the whole week already.
Man: I'm sorry baby. I have been busy with work. I promise next week I'll take you out, ok?
After
Girl: We have not been going out for the whole week already.
Man: You think I got no work, is it?
Scenario 5
Dating
Girl: How's the taste? This is my first time cooking porridge.
Man: No matter what you cook, it taste sweet.
After
Girl: How's the taste? This is my first time cooking pasta.
Man: You try your own.
Why do we change our tone and way of speech after we got the other half in a stable relationship? Are we putting a mask when we go out dating the potential? Are we pretending to be someone else? Why are we hiding our true self? Why are we trying to be so polite and sweet during the dating period but all those sweet talks are gone once the relationship is stable. Why?
Let's take a comparison on a heterosexual dating couple during the dating period and after they have confirmed to be in a relationship.
Scenario 1
Dating
Girl: Do I look nice in this dress?
Man: You look fabulous. You're the prettiest.
After
Girl: Do I look nice in this dress?
Man: You still think you're young? You look the same no matter what you wear.
Scenario 2
Dating
Man: What do you want to eat?
Girl: Sushi.
Man: Ok, let's go.
After
Man: What do you want to eat?
Girl: Sushi.
Man: Don't want lah. So expensive.
Scenario 3
Dating
Man: I love you baby.
Girl: I love you too, hubby.
After
Girl: How come you don't say 'I love you' anymore to me?
Man: Eee.... so gross.
Scenario 4
Dating
Girl: We have not been going out for the whole week already.
Man: I'm sorry baby. I have been busy with work. I promise next week I'll take you out, ok?
After
Girl: We have not been going out for the whole week already.
Man: You think I got no work, is it?
Scenario 5
Dating
Girl: How's the taste? This is my first time cooking porridge.
Man: No matter what you cook, it taste sweet.
After
Girl: How's the taste? This is my first time cooking pasta.
Man: You try your own.
Why do we change our tone and way of speech after we got the other half in a stable relationship? Are we putting a mask when we go out dating the potential? Are we pretending to be someone else? Why are we hiding our true self? Why are we trying to be so polite and sweet during the dating period but all those sweet talks are gone once the relationship is stable. Why?
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